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You&#8217;ve always been good!&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Riley goes on to tell the story of his rise from being a perennial benchwarmer, even behind his younger brother, to becoming a top recruit to USC, to being a professional indoor player in the Italian Super league.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plot twist: It had nothing to do with natural talent! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was sheer hard work and determination. Nothing else! It took several years and a lot of effort for him to get where he is today, but I think we can all agree, his hard work paid off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a coach, one of the things I tried to impress on all my players was the idea that they ultimately determined how far good got at the game and how quickly they progressed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Something I perhaps could have been more specific about, however, is most of that progress comes away from the court and away from your coaches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, the story Riley tells is one of self-motivation and perseverance. <em>He <\/em>made the decision to put in the work. <em>He <\/em>made the decision to do what he thought he needed to do to become better. It was all <em>him!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Riley&#8217;s story is not too unlike my own athletic journey actually. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I grew up with some of the areas top athletes as some of my best friends. Several of them represented our area and even our nation in at least one sport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Over the years, I&#8217;ve had a good number of players tell me they wanted to get really good. I&#8217;ve had number of players tell me they wanted to work hard and become a real asset to their team. I can count on one hand the number of players that actually put in that work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve had so many players ask me what they needed to do to increase their vertical. I gave every single one of them the initial steps to improving which included stuff like box jumps, sprint starts and lifting. Again, I can count on one hand the number of players that actually followed through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Coaches don&#8217;t make good players better. Good players make themselves better and coaches help give them the structure needed to succeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Coaches discover and develop talent. 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